Why relationships don't work

Some group of people do wonder why relationships don't work. At times, they categories it to being ugly and not worthy to be loved.

Why relationships don't work

In a new relationship, the boy will always want to please the girl and vise versa. When it goes a little deep, they come to the conclusion of settling for a breakup.

Reasons why relationships don't last could be of so many reasons. They can be due to the following reasons:

1. Lack of understanding

What keeps a relationship up and running is the ability of lovers understanding themselves. If partners can understand the existence of individual differences in humans, I see no reason why such a relationship will not work. As humans, we have our different ways of living. A relationship can only work when you understand these differences and ready to cope with them.

2. Pleasure

Another reason why relationships don't work is because partners only fancy the pleasure they derive from it. This could be sex, finance etc. Placing little or no value to love, remains one of the great reasons why relationships can never work.

3. Lack of communication

If you are in a relationship and their is no existence of communication between you and your partner, then why should such a relationship work? Communication is key in every relationship. Whether your speaking is bad, always ensure you hear from your partner. If you have not seen his call for sometime, try and call him. Know whether all is well with him.

4. Gifts

As odd as that might sound, but it also has a role to play on why relationships don't work. When you don't once in a while buy your partner gifts, he or she will always think you don't value him/her especially if he is the only one that buys the gift.

5. None existence of love

When you no longer feel anything for your partner, the person becomes irrelevant to your existence. Since relationship exists where love exist, it therefore means that without love, relationship can never work.

6. Cheating

No woman will like to stay or date a cheat. The same is also applicable to the man. When you cheat, it means you have no regards to your date.  Relationship can never work when either partner cheats.

7. Lack of attention

This point almost share the same view with lack of communication. For your relationship to work, you must give attention to your lover. Women especially need men who will give them attention. So if you are a guy and hoping to be in a relationship please learn to give women attention else, such relationship will never work.

8. Nagging

Talking too much or nagging too much also is one of the reasons why relationships don't work. Sometimes you will notice that ladies who nag a lot hardly last in relationships. No man would want to settle with a nagging woman.

9. Lack of goals and objectives

A man who has no intention of thinking big or woman who is in the same shoe, suffer relationship breakups.  Some relationships don't work because either partner has no intention of marrying eachother.

10. Family traits

In some occasions, the family become a stumbling block to relationships. You may see a woman you love but because your family is not in good terms with her's, you end up, losing interest. 

11. Caste system

 Another reason is the issue of caste system. Though this evil practice have being long abolished but it is still in existence in some societies today. A good example is the Igbo communities in Biafra.

There are a lot of reasons that could serve as to why relationships don't work. You can leave yours in the comments section below.


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